Don’t stay quiet – speak up safely

Cultural Load, Colonial Load — and Why Silence Isn’t Neutral

Last week’s conversation on cultural load struck a deep chord.

Many of you told us you prefer the term colonial load. We hear you. The load exists because of colonisation: laws, policies, power imbalances, racism, and the unpaid cultural and emotional labour created when systems were designed without First Nations voices.

“Cultural load” can sound like culture is the problem. For most, culture is a source of strength, identity, healing and resilience. The load does not come from culture. It comes from colonisation. Using colonial load names the cause and shifts the focus from individuals to the systems — and the colleagues within them — who can help share and reduce the load.

Use of colonial load is growing because it centres structures shaped by colonisation, not individual culture. For accessibility and continuity, we’ll continue to use both terms interchangeably for now.


You can’t discuss load or cultural safety without naming racism

Let’s start with the moments that test us most:

  • The comment that makes you pause.

  • The “joke” that doesn’t sit right.

  • The meeting where silence feels safer than speaking.

Most of us freeze. We don’t want to make it awkward. We’re not sure what to say. So we stay quiet.

But silence contributes to racism. It adds to the load and leaves Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people feeling unseen, unsupported, and unsafe.

Cultural safety isn’t built by waiting for First Nations people to speak up. It grows when Allies step forward, interrupt harm, and share the load.


Practical ways Allies can interrupt racism — without the panic

You don’t need a perfect script. You do need a safe, steady response you can use in the moment. Here are simple, practical options.

1) Name it, pause it, redirect it

“I’m not comfortable with that comment. Let’s keep this space respectful and get back to the agenda.”

2) Use a values anchor

“Our team agreed to create a culturally safe workplace. That comment undermines that commitment.”

3) Ask a clarifying question (when safe)

“Can you explain what you meant by that? I’m concerned about the impact.”

4) Centre impact, not intent

“I know you may not have intended harm, but the impact lands as racist. Let’s choose different language.”

5) Share the load after the meeting

  • Check in with the person targeted.

  • Record what happened (time, context, witnesses).

  • Raise it with a manager or HR if appropriate.

  • Offer to stand with the person in any follow-up.

6) Build team habits that reduce load

  • Set a cultural safety check-in at the start of meetings.

  • Agree on “pause language” anyone can use (e.g., “Let’s reset — language matters here.”).

  • Include bystander action in onboarding and team norms.


Why this matters

  • Allyship is a verb. It’s something we do, not just something we feel.

  • Interrupting racism shares the load. It signals safety, spreads responsibility and prevents harm.

  • Small interventions add up. One steady sentence can change the tone of a room — and a workplace culture.


Learn the words and actions that work (even when it’s uncomfortable)

In our final public webinar for 2025, we’ll guide you through how to interrupt racism with clarity and confidence — especially in those high-stakes, awkward moments. You’ll walk away with practical language, strategies and real-world examples you can use straight away.

Cultural Safety: From Burden to Belonging — Tackling Racism and Cultural Load
When: Wednesday 12 November, 1:00–2:00 pm AEDT
Price: $59 per person (group tickets available)
Recording: Available for 7 days

👉 Secure your spot and join the discussion: Register now

Join us for a Yarn

We invite you to gather with us around the virtual fire — a space to reflect, ask questions, and explore how you can walk forward with purpose. Together, we’ll deepen our understanding and take meaningful steps toward Reconciliation in a genuine, practical way.

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